Stories - PRIVATE LIVES SEX MAGAZINE
Episode 16: The Man Behind the Gloryhole
We learn about anonymous sex and the perks of a Gloryhole, Dr. Kat reviews a masturbation sleeve, and our editor Gloria wonders about heavy petting.
Hi, I'm Peter Simon, and welcome to this edition of private lives, the podcast for the sexually adventurous. We bring the classic Adam and Eve newsletter private lives the newsletter for the sexually adventurous to live in today's technology-driven world throughout our series, will feature sex tips, adult toy reviews, adult movie reviews, will talk sex around the globe, and share some erotic stories. Plus, we will offer great discounts on Adam and Eve products as our thanks to you for listening. In this edition, Marilla hatch gives us some great oral advice. Contributor Karen Lafley shares a story from a lady who likes it rough, and our resident sexologist, Dr. Cat, reviews one of her favorite toys. Up first, his private lives contributor Marla hatch with some advice on every man's favorite pastime. Here's Marla, there was a time, Believe it or not, when women worried that swallowing semen would make them gain weight. Now semen is nutritionally rich, but it's not loaded with calories. Maybe the equivalent of a tic-tac, or to some women don't like the flavor of semen, others do. But many who don't are just unaccustomed to the consistency of it, which is kind of like raw oysters. Once you get used to the consistency, you'll find the flavor itself is quite bland. A friend of mine told me once a blow job is like a bowl of ice cream. But she swallows. It's like she put whipped cream and chocolate sauce and nuts all up that Sunday. Swallowing just makes it better. If you as a woman just can't get past the swallowing bit, there are a few options; you can try bringing your man to the edge of orgasm, then have him slide it into your vagina. And then he can come in there. You can also ask him for a pearl necklace or have him shoot it on your chest. Seriously, most men are just happy to be in the same room. Let's move on to deep throating. It's not something that all women are going to be good at, especially on the first try. For one thing, your throat is home to your gag reflex. The distance between your lips and the back of your throat isn't as long as the length of the average man's penis. So if you're going to get the whole thing in your mouth, you're going to need to curb that gag reflex. One thing to keep in mind is the gag reflex can be overcome, even if it's only for a short amount of time. Keeping the penis all the way in your throat for a long time won't work for most women. Try sliding it back into your throat, then sliding it out again before it gets unbearable. If you'd like to get good at the Deep Throat technique, tried tilting your head back and leading it off the edge of the bed. This automatically opens the back of your throat for deep penetration, but maybe you're just not going to get past the gag reflex. Don't worry; you can simulate the sensation by using your hands using plenty of salivae or some sweet-tasting lubricant. Grab the base of his penis while putting the rest into your mouth. Your hand then follows your mouth up and down the shaft. If your mouth completely leaves his penis, your hand is still on it. Use your hands to caress, fondle nip stroke, lightly pinch or trace areas of his body close to his genitals while you're using your mouth at the same time. One last quick tip, try using some ice cubes or even some hot tea or cider. Both the hot and cold feelings transmitted by your tongue will be super sexy to your man. Okay, have fun, ladies, gents. I already know you will for private lives. I'm Marla hatch. Thanks, Marla. And now contributor Karen Lafley shares a story submitted by a lady who likes a man to take charge in the bedroom. Here's Karen this story comes to us from a kinky little minx named charity. I'm the kind of girl who likes to play hard in the bedroom. Sure I like candlelight dinners and soft kisses. But when it comes to getting off, I like to be dominated, spanked, and the teased thing is. It's tough to figure out which guys will take that kind of control in the bedroom. When I first met Sam, he was such a sweet, shy guy. I never thought he'd be a match. We met at a party, a pretty lame party, so I invited him back to my place down the street for a drink. Sam is slender with bright blue eyes and blond hair. His lips are full and pink, and I really wanted to kiss him. When we got to my place. We barely made it inside. We made out furiously for several minutes, my hands tearing at the buttons of his shirt and feeling the hardness in his pants. But when I was ready to push him inside towards the bedroom, he stopped me about that drink. Well, a classy guy, I thought, so I went into the kitchen, grabbed some glasses and a bottle of port, and was about to open it when I heard him say I want you to bring it to me topless, topless, I replied with mock shock. What if I don't want to take my top off? Then I'll rip it off you. This is getting good. I did as he commanded and removed my shirt with my nipples already at attention. I walked into the room with the drinks. I sat down next to him. We toasted, and he ran the back of his hand along with my left breast while telling me how beautiful I was. He tweets one of my nipples, rolling it between his fingers like that. Don't you? Yes, I guessed. And he stopped. We can't always get what you like, the stand-up and show me your snatch. And it better be where I stood and pulled my dress over my head, leaned back on the couch, and showed him my glistening twat. You're a good girl. You're gonna do everything I tell you, aren't you? Yes, I breathed heavily. I was dripping wet. He reached for his zipper and unleashed his hard dick. Tell me how much you want to suck it. And I did. I did want to suck it. I want it so bad. I can taste it. Feed it to me. I pleaded. But he wouldn't. He just wanted to see my bag, get on your knees and turn around. He ordered. I shoved my ass in the air, offering it up for him to use at his whim. Oh, you have a perfect ass. There's not a mark on it. We'll have to change that. He slapped my ass, leaving a large red mark on it. I want you to tell me how much you like it when I slap your ass and beg me to do it again. I loved it when you smacked my ass. Please give me another. I moaned, and he slapped and slapped and whacked my ass, so it was red hot and tingling. I could barely take anymore when I felt his fingers punch deep inside of me. You're a hot little slot. And with that, he rolled me over, shoved his tongue in my mouth and his throbbing dick into my snatch. I shuttered again with pleasure and could feel the orgasm building, not a regular orgasm, a special orgasm when that comes with complete abandonment. As he pounded away, I felt wave upon wave of orgasmic pleasure slamming through my body. Sam did me exactly how I like it. I mean, it's always hard to tell if a guy can take charge like that. But figuring it out is all the fun. Sincerely, charity. Well, charity. I'd say you turn that evening around nicely. And with just the right amount of kink for private lives. I'm Karen Lafley. Thanks, Karen. Up next doctor cat reviews of a favorite toy. But first, if you've enjoyed this podcast, subscribe. It's free for private lives. I'm Peter Simon, and I'll talk to you next time. I leave you with our resident sexologist Dr. Cat. Hi, I'm Dr. Cat van Kirk, clinical sexologist and marriage and family therapist, and I'm your adult toy correspondent. The toy I'm reviewing today is the max results pump from Adam and Eve. The max results pump a penis pump. And for men who there is the first time that they've used a pump, This is actually a really good one to start with. It's about nine and a quarter inches tall, two and a quarter inches wide as far as the cylinder is concerned. And it's actually got a really great grip finger pool, so you can actually suction it onto a flaccid penis, and it's got a very easy release valve. Why would you want to use a penis pump? Well, some men like the sensation. Others prefer to have a little help with their erections; it can help to pull the blood into the penis and to keep it there for a short period of time. If you're having trouble maintaining or just having softer erections. If you'd like a little bit of a harder erection, a penis pump is a really nice non-prescription medicine way to go about it. It's basically just a pump that you would use at the very beginning. Once you've created a vacuum, you can enjoy the feeling of also kind of an enlarged direction as well. Some men do believe that with the extra blood flow to the penis that their penis actually appears and feels larger. Also, the penis pump can be easily used as a solo masturbator as well. So if you're looking for erection help, it's one use, but also, if you're just looking to find a new way to masturbate and get off, that's a whole other option for you.
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